Last night, singer May D's baby mama Adebola Olowoporoku reached out to share her sad story and how she endured brutal beatings from the singer, real name Akinmayokun Awodumila, for years. She said she broke up the relationship in December 2014 to escape the violence but when they met up again in January to talk about their son who was born in January 2013 (read here), he beat her up again, this she told me over the phone. Read her story which she wrote herself after the cut...
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| The couple 8 years ago |
My name is Debola I’m sure you know who I am, you put me on
ur blog about 3yrs ago, for tattooing a Nigerian artist name on my body, I’m
MayD’s baby Mama… I haven’t come here to rant or make noise, but to say some
important things that I feel people should know. I will try to make my story as
short as possible.
I was with MayD for 8years, which implies we were together from
the get-go, before his career began and when nobody knew him obviously. For
many years I stayed with him, obviously as his girlfriend, I supported him, financially,
physically and emotionally. Back then when I was in Babcock we passed through
loads of hurdles together being that he was struggling and incapable of
providing for himself and I was obliged to supporting him financially. Even
when it was extreme, like giving him a semester’s tuition to pay for studio
sessions while I stupidly stayed at home, the things we do for love right?I
practically paused my life for him, for us at a point. The sad part about this
whole thing is that I never got tired I did everything that was within my
reach. He stopped to cater for his kid a while ago, which I took
responsibilities for and started to do diligently..
Now, like most
relationships we had major problems which included the frequent cheating and escapades with girls which I obviously
endured as I was consumed by the “main chick” title. Not that I was even
getting any good thing in return, he
never for one day acknowledge me, or made me feel like we were in a
relationship together. I had no simple freedom to do whatsoever on my own, be
it business, friendship etc.
The thing I
couldn’t cope with was the fact that he beat me up at every slightest
opportunity he had, he beats me up like a man, he beat me up so badly infront
of our little boy all the time. He assaulted me regularly, I suffered domestic
violence in silence, and this last time he beat me up so badly and I passed
out.. I saw my life flash right infront of me. I witnessed been close to death,
I prayed to survive each time he pounced on me, damaging several properties nd
breaking diff stuff on my head.
This had to be my last experience, as I thought to myself,
who will take care of my child for me if I die in his hands? Who will he call
mother? Who will stand by him? So I left the relationship hurriedly without
thinking of how much time, energy, resources that must have been wasted….
PS( I av my tattoo removed already for those of you that
want to comment bullshit)……
PLS SAY NO TO DOMESTIC VIOLENCE….
DEBOLA
http://www.lindaikeji.blogspot.com/2015/03/how-may-d-assaulted-me-for-years-baby.html
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