First
things first: Men don’t really need to hear anything. (By the time
we’re naked, we’re not really dwelling on the quality of the
conversation.) That said, there’s no harm in making a full-frontal
moment even more blissful by boosting your guy’s confidence or revealing
something sexy about yourself. Arousal is driven by the brain, after
all. So words that put us in a sexier frame of mind can lead to very
pleasant results. The next time your man bares all, try one (or all) of
these hot lines.
“I want you.” We probably wouldn’t be in
this situation if we weren’t already about to have sex, but it’s nice
to know that you’re still interested now that you’ve seen our pale
thighs and spotty chest hair.
“Your chest/stomach/back is amazing.”
Hey, we’re not working out for our health. Well, actually we are working
out for our health, but we’re also working out because we want you to
notice the little muscles sprouting up under our skin.
“There’s not an imperfection on your
body.” If you can’t figure out exactly where to direct your compliment,
this Hail Mary approach works just fine. Actually, it works even better.
“Tell me what you like.” This tells us
that you’re willing to try new things, and that you want our sex life to
be experimental. And trust me—if you try your guy’s kinky suggestions,
he’ll try yours.
“That’s one handsome penis.” There’s
something about an absurd compliment that feels totally sincere, like
there’s no possible way you’re just quoting something you heard in a
romcom. So feel free: We accept all forms of bizarre flattery relating
to any part of our body or sexual performance. Plus you’ll introduce a
little humor, and that’s never a bad thing.
“You
can do whatever you want.” A line like this is guaranteed to make a
man’s mind wander to some amazing places. Of course—only say it if you
mean it (and totally trust this guy).
“I have a condom.” There’s not a damn
thing wrong with a woman who can take charge of her sexual health. It
lets us know that when we sleep with you, we’re not sleeping with all
the other men you’ve slept with.
“You feel so good inside me.” The
average guy knows he’s working with average sized equipment. But he
wants to believe that he’s using that equipment in such an extraordinary
way that you’re never left wishing he had another inch or two to work
with. So yeah, a little reassurance is nice.
“Oh oh oh!” Because—like I said—90
percent of the time, we don’t even really need lots of compliments. In
those cases, an enthusiastic moan will do wonders.
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